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According to the California Department of Public Health, 20% of women and 14% of men will experience domestic violence at some point in their lives. Incidents of alleged domestic violence may lead to criminal charges, civil family law issues, and countless future implications. 

Domestic violence can change your life forever. You may be wondering how to protect yourself from spousal abuse, how to get a restraining order, and how to protect your children from child abuse during a divorce. Or, you might already be divorced and worry that your children are not safe in your ex-partner’s home. These are all problems that our firm can help you navigate.

You can approach these situations with confidence by working alongside an experienced domestic violence lawyer in California. Choose Fenchel Family Law. We are ready to help you through what may be the hardest time in your life.

Contact our compassionate family law attorneys at (415) 805-9069 today to schedule your appointment.

 

What Is Domestic Violence in California?

California defines domestic violence under Section 6320 of the Family Code. These laws apply to restraining orders and to domestic violence in the context of divorce proceedings. Domestic violence occurs when someone carries out certain acts against close relatives or partners. 

Here are a few examples of acts that could qualify for “domestic violence” in California: 

  • Causing physical harm

  • Sexual assault or sexual abuse

  • Threats

  • Molestation

  • Direct attacks

  • Stalking

  • Harassment

  • Cyberstalking

  • Abusive phone calls

  • Property destruction

  • Emotional abuse like coercive control

  • Isolation from friends and family

  • Taking away basic necessities

  • Monitoring the victim’s movements

  • Controlling the victim’s communications

  • Controlling the victim’s finances

  • Forcing victims to carry out unwanted acts

  • Preventing victims from carrying out activities

  • Reproductive coercion

However, those acts would have to be committed against certain persons to be considered domestic violence. The next section explores which people and relations will count as victims of domestic violence for purposes of the law. 

Who Can Be a Victim of Domestic Violence in California?

To be considered a victim of domestic violence in California, you must meet certain elements. Generally speaking, domestic violence laws apply to people within the same household. However, there are other situations that will sometimes be considered domestic violence, even if the parties involved don’t live together. 

Section 6211 of the Family Code provides a full list of qualifying victims of abuse, including: 

  • Spouses

  • Former spouses

  • Cohabitants (Family Code Section 6209 defines a “cohabitant” as “a person who regularly resides in the household.”)

  • Former cohabitants

  • Parents of the same child

  • Partners in dating relationships (Family Code Section 6210 defines a “dating relationship” as “frequent, intimate associations primarily characterized by the expectation of affection or sexual involvement independent of financial considerations.” In other words, “one-night stands” do not qualify as dating relationships under this definition.) 

  • Blood relatives

  • In-laws

Don’t wait another moment to retake control over your life. Contact us at (415) 805-9069 now for help getting a restraining order against your abuser.

The Impact of Domestic Violence on a Family Law Case

Allegations of domestic violence can affect the dynamic of many different family situations. Divorce, child custody arrangements, and visitation agreements can all be impacted by domestic violence situations. You may be wondering whether a judge cares about domestic violence in the context of a family law matter. The following sections outline how domestic violence will impact family law matters. 

How Can Domestic Violence Affect Spousal Support?

Spouses who commit domestic violence may become ineligible to receive spousal support after a divorce. On the other hand, the amount and duration of spousal support may increase for spouses who suffer domestic violence during their marriages. In the immediate aftermath of a domestic violence incident, courts may order your spouse to provide you with temporary spousal support to cover your living expenses. With this support, you can remain in your family home while your spouse is forced to live apart from you. 

How Can Domestic Violence Affect Child Custody?

Section 3044 of the Family Code states that family courts may consider past instances of domestic violence when determining child custody orders. If it becomes clear that one parent has “perpetrated domestic violence” in the past, they may face serious challenges while seeking custody. Family courts often give sole physical custody to the other parent in this situation. 

Under Section 3044, family courts use the same definition of “domestic violence” as outlined in Section 6320.

How Does Domestic Violence Affect Visitation Rights?

Even if a parent commits domestic violence, they may still get visitation rights. However, these rights may be severely limited. Depending on the nature of the domestic violence incident(s), the accused parent may only spend a short amount of time with their children each month. These visits may also be supervised by social workers or law enforcement in order to protect the children from further acts of violence. 

Can Domestic Violence Affect Family Law Cases in the Absence of Convictions?

A divorce trial can explore past instances of domestic violence even if they never led to restraining orders or criminal convictions. Since divorce trials occur in civil courts, the burden of proof is lower. Family members may escape convictions in criminal courts because prosecutors fail to establish guilt “beyond reasonable doubt.” However, the same defendant could face consequences for the same alleged act in civil family law courts due to a lower burden of proof.

A spouse may feel uncomfortable with bringing criminal charges or calling the police during their marriage. After separation, however, they may feel more confident in making these accusations of domestic violence known. In a subsequent divorce trial, domestic violence charges may be explored for the first time.

The Impact of Domestic Violence on a Family Law Case

Allegations of domestic violence can affect the dynamic of many different family situations. Divorce, child custody arrangements, and visitation agreements can all be impacted by domestic violence situations. You may be wondering whether a judge cares about domestic violence in the context of a family law matter. The following sections outline how domestic violence will impact family law matters. 

How Can Domestic Violence Affect Spousal Support?

Spouses who commit domestic violence may become ineligible to receive spousal support after a divorce. On the other hand, the amount and duration of spousal support may increase for spouses who suffer domestic violence during their marriages. In the immediate aftermath of a domestic violence incident, courts may order your spouse to provide you with temporary spousal support to cover your living expenses. With this support, you can remain in your family home while your spouse is forced to live apart from you. 

How Can Domestic Violence Affect Child Custody?

Section 3044 of the Family Code states that family courts may consider past instances of domestic violence when determining child custody orders. If it becomes clear that one parent has “perpetrated domestic violence” in the past, they may face serious challenges while seeking custody. Family courts often give sole physical custody to the other parent in this situation. 

Under Section 3044, family courts use the same definition of “domestic violence” as outlined in Section 6320.

How Does Domestic Violence Affect Visitation Rights?

Even if a parent commits domestic violence, they may still get visitation rights. However, these rights may be severely limited. Depending on the nature of the domestic violence incident(s), the accused parent may only spend a short amount of time with their children each month. These visits may also be supervised by social workers or law enforcement in order to protect the children from further acts of violence. 

Can Domestic Violence Affect Family Law Cases in the Absence of Convictions?

A divorce trial can explore past instances of domestic violence even if they never led to restraining orders or criminal convictions. Since divorce trials occur in civil courts, the burden of proof is lower. Family members may escape convictions in criminal courts because prosecutors fail to establish guilt “beyond reasonable doubt.” However, the same defendant could face consequences for the same alleged act in civil family law courts due to a lower burden of proof.

A spouse may feel uncomfortable with bringing criminal charges or calling the police during their marriage. After separation, however, they may feel more confident in making these accusations of domestic violence known. In a subsequent divorce trial, domestic violence charges may be explored for the first time.

Obtaining a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

Obtaining a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) in California is relatively straightforward. Due to the urgency of this situation, courts in California recognize the importance of acting quickly. As a result, they will issue a temporary restraining order very quickly – and your burden of proof will be relatively low. However, obtaining a permanent or “final” restraining order is more complex – and it involves a higher burden of proof. 

Obtain and Fill Out the Application Form

The first step is to obtain the necessary forms from your local courthouse. Fill out the forms and file your petition in the same courthouse. It may be possible to file a petition for a DVRO electronically. 

Get a Temporary Ex Parte Order

In many cases, a family law judge will review your petition on the same day. If everything is in order, the judge should grant you a temporary ex parte order. This will provide protection from your abuser right away. 

Attend Your Restraining Order Hearing

Note that your temporary restraining order will eventually expire, and you will need to attend an official hearing to obtain a final restraining order. During your hearing, a judge will review your situation and determine whether a permanent form of protection is necessary. A domestic violence lawyer can help you tell your side of the story during this hearing. 

Proof Required for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

Although a family law judge may grant a temporary restraining order with a very low bar for burden of proof, they approach final restraining orders with more scrutiny. That being said, the burden of proof is still lower than that of criminal cases. While you must prove guilt “beyond reasonable doubt” in a criminal case, you only need to show a “preponderance of evidence” to obtain a domestic violence restraining order. 

In order to establish a preponderance of evidence, you’ll need to convince the court that your domestic violence incident probably happened. In other words, the likelihood must be higher than 50%. Various forms of evidence can help, including:

  • Text messages

  • Social media posts

  • Emails

  • Pictures

  • Medical records

  • Eyewitness testimony

  • Evidence of property damage

  • Police testimony

Each domestic violence case is unique, and your domestic violence lawyer can help you collect and present compelling evidence based on your specific circumstances. While online research may provide a few examples of effective evidence, lawyers can offer you more targeted guidance during consultations. 

Contact a Domestic Violence Lawyer in California

Domestic violence can upend your life, but help is available. Our experienced domestic violence attorneys in California can learn more about your specific circumstances during a consultation – and we can recommend the most appropriate course of legal action. Book a consultation with Fenchel Family Law today to get started. 

Call (415) 805-9069 today to schedule a consultation with one of our knowledgeable family law attorneys.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. When does domestic abuse start?

In California, domestic abuse has a very broad definition. It may begin with non-violent behavior, such as psychological manipulation, verbal abuse, gaslighting, and controlling acts. Take legal action as soon as you begin experiencing these early signs of abuse, as your situation may escalate quickly. 

  1. What is the Domestic Violence Prevention Act?

The Domestic Violence Prevention Act (DVPA) provides victims with immediate protection. This protection comes in the form of restraining orders and injunctions – which became easier and faster to obtain in 1993 thanks to the DVPA. 

  1. Where do I file a temporary restraining order?

File your temporary restraining order in the county of your residence. Your domestic violence lawyer can help you locate a nearby courthouse that deals with family law and restraining orders. 

  1. How does domestic violence impact child custody?

Family courts consider past instances of domestic violence when determining a child’s best interests. A parent who has committed domestic violence in the past may struggle to get sole or shared physical custody of their child. 

  1. What protections are available for victims of domestic violence?

California generally protects victims of domestic violence by issuing restraining orders against abusers. If the abuser commits a criminal act, they will also face incarceration – which inherently prevents them from contacting the victim. Furthermore, California may take away an alleged abuser’s firearms. You might also receive additional support in the form of housing, paid leave, and much more. 

  1. How can a family domestic violence lawyer help?

A domestic violence lawyer can help you file an emergency protective order (EPO) immediately after your incident. After the EPO expires, your lawyer can represent you during hearings as you attempt to make your restraining order permanent. During this process, they may gather evidence of domestic violence on your behalf. 

  1. Is physical abuse required to prove domestic violence?

Domestic violence may not necessarily involve direct violence. California has a very broad definition of domestic violence, which includes things like verbal abuse, psychological manipulation, and much more. 

  1. Can domestic violence impact divorce?

Yes, domestic violence may affect various aspects of divorce in California – especially child custody. Legal representation can help you navigate these issues.

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